Testimonial

Reading this book my eyes have been opened to the immense courage and persistence of this family’s journey through grief, and their experiences and struggles to continue to love one another to a new normal in spite of an unspeakable tragedy.

Wonderful book. An easy read, it helps understanding different types of grief and how to deal with it.

Very touching story

NOT MY ANDREW was a gift to me. I had no idea how this memoir would take hold of my heart. The Milne’s – every one of them, are a “gift” to me. I grew up with them. I played golf with Andrew. We’ve all experienced death in some way. This is a touching reminder that life’s journey has its special way of teaching us lessons. Some we don’t want.

Bobbi and Tracy, to you both, a huge thank you for sharing your story, your journey and your love for Andrew and one another. The world needs more people like you.

NOT MY ANDREW is a quick, honest, heartfelt share from a Mom who has been through a moment you’re never to experience. It’s a must read.

Not My Andrew by Bobbi Schlager Milne is a deeply personal and heart-wrenching memoir that explores the tragic loss of her son Andrew. Written with raw honesty and profound emotion, Milne courageously shares her journey through grief, guilt, and the search for understanding, offering readers an intimate glimpse into the devastating impact of losing a loved one to a tragic accident.
The strength of this memoir lies in Milne’s ability to articulate the complexities of her emotions while shedding light on the challenges of navigating life after such a profound loss. Her reflections on Andrew’s life, his struggles, and the moments of joy they shared bring a sense of humanity and warmth to the story, making the loss all the more poignant.
Milne also delves into broader societal issues, such as the stigma surrounding mental health and the need for greater awareness and resources to prevent similar tragedies. Her vulnerability in addressing these topics is both courageous and inspiring, as she transforms her pain into a mission to help others.
Ultimately, Not My Andrew is a moving tribute to a beloved son and a powerful reminder of the importance of compassion, connection, and mental health advocacy. It is a must-read for anyone touched by loss or seeking to understand its far-reaching effects.